How do I persuade a girl to break up with her present boyfriend to be with me?

[nic.c]

So, i'm in this pretty messed up situation right now.

I fell for this girl who has a boyfriend right now.
The problem is,
I have been going out with her more often than she does with her boyfriend.
And just last week, she came upstate to stay with me for a week,
and we held hands, hugged and even kissed.
I need some advice on what I should and should not do in this kind of situations.

Well, she's pretty confused herself too,
and I think that's my advantage,
therefore, I need some strong advice on what I CAN and SHOULD say to her via text/call since we're pretty far away from each other right now.

I hope you guys can help me,
because I have no one else that I can rely on.

I won't let her go,
because I really do love her.
So please help me,
the more advice the merrier thanks!

[Illusional]

you really love her?

anyways, why don't you ask her bf for some advice, i'm sure that he'll give it to you.


raverboy

[HeartIsAching]

You don't really want to.

Think about it - if she'll break up with someone else to be with you, she'll break up with you to be with someone else. Your best bet is patience.

[Chris0516]

So, i'm in this pretty messed up situation right now.

I fell for this girl who has a boyfriend right now.
The problem is,
I have been going out with her more often than she does with her boyfriend.
And just last week, she came upstate to stay with me for a week,
and we held hands, hugged and even kissed.
I need some advice on what I should and should not do in this kind of situations.

Well, she's pretty confused herself too,
and I think that's my advantage,
therefore, I need some strong advice on what I CAN and SHOULD say to her via text/call since we're pretty far away from each other right now.

I hope you guys can help me,
because I have no one else that I can rely on.

I won't let her go,
because I really do love her.
So please help me,
the more advice the merrier thanks!

While you have kissed and held hands, she is the one that has to make the decision. While there is no marriage bond to be concerned about, the infidelity part is still there. Tell her, if she wants to leave her boyfriend, she should do it. But don't allow yourself to be the 'other man', any longer. Don't have any contact with her, until she makes a decision.

[smackie9]

You really want this girl? Relocate. That's the only thing that's stopping her from being with you......the distance.