Quick intro- been married 18 years, two teenagers, get along pretty well, we have shared interests and spend time together without the kids etc. So far so good! Both 41 years old, first erection difficulties about 18 months ago...got more of a problem within last 6 months. He has problems getting one and maintaining one quite often. He does wake with one most days so assume it's not a physical problem...now and again it's fine and i think things are back on track but then have issues again. He says he just doesn't get the urge very often but if i instigate or suggest sex it puts pressure on him. If i don't, we just don't do it! I am so sad that our love life is in this state and don't know how to sort it out. He exercises regularly, doesn't smoke and does drink socially. Help...