Devastated.

[boobaa]

Argh. I am in shock right now.


The reason for that is that I saw my 3 year old crush today an hour ago and as I was completely forgotten her, I now remember all the emotions I had. Damn. I thought I am over her, I made up all kinds of nasty things in my head to get over her, but now its in vain.

Some of you might remember why I first came to these forums, it was because of her. I had similar problem like OV had. Only thing is, that she seemed to be interested in me, as I look back But I never took the chance to ask her out and eventually I screwed up really hard, left in shame. Haven't talked to her since, thats 3 years. Young and stupid I was.

I think she recognized me, as she seemed surprised. I didn't talk to her, I was on bike and just quickly drove by as she was with friends also. But she was just jaw dropping, I mean.... the most beautiful girl I have ever seen! Damn.

I think she is still single. What should I do? I know how I can contact her, but maybe I just make a fool out of myself... I like her, and she is reallllly sophisticated and smart.
Girls, if your crush or the person you liked makes a fool out of himself in front of her, do you reconsider your feelings or give him another chance maybe? Should I contact her and ask how she is doing?

[anachronistic]

Introduce yourself and start a conversation. At the end of the conversation, ask her out on a date. If you get rejected, forget about her.

[Gribble]

Relax, keep cool and keep your negative opinions to yourself until after you've hooked her. You'll be fine.

[Junket]

It's funny how humans have a tendency to make such strong emotional connections with other people.

[DoesntMatter]

Ah man, that sucks teh big 1

Let's see what the girls say about this boobaa

[lastwish]

Depends on what he did. If he did something mean to me before...then I wouldn't give him a second chance but if he just made a fool out of himself then I would.

[Lipp]

Depends on what he did. If he did something mean to me before...then I wouldn't give him a second chance but if he just made a fool out of himself then I would.

What if he did something mean as a direct response to her doing something mean?

Probably not relevant, but I'm curious myself.

[Tone]

Boobaa learn from your past mistakes when you had a chance and did NOTHING.

Do SOMETHING now.

[anachronistic]

Go show her a little Estonian black magic.

[Citycat]

Girls, if your crush or the person you liked makes a fool out of himself in front of her, do you reconsider your feelings or give him another chance maybe? Should I contact her and ask how she is doing?

"Shame on you if you fool me once, shame on me if you fool me twice". Get it? Second chance - yes, I do give, 100th - no way, God is there to be asked and prayed for forgiveness, not me.

She is single now.
She is single now.
She is single now.
She is single now.
She is single now.
She is single now.

Do something NOW!

Don't wait to hear she got married (I tell you this from experience).

What did you do in the past?

[Asparagoose]

She is single now.
She is single now.
She is single now.
She is single now.
She is single now.
She is single now.

Do something NOW!

That pretty much sums up what I wanted to say. Are you waiting for the perfect moment? A full moon perhaps? If you really want her and she's single, then stop wasting your time telling us online and go tell her all that!

[anachronistic]

If you don't ask her on a date, you have to suck my dick.

Is that enough inspiration?

[Mish]

You have to remember that even though she's this incredible, unimaginable, all powerful godess in your mind, in her mind she's just a regular person living a normal life and wanting to be happy. So if you simply cast aside your over build up imagination of her and talk to her on normal level as a fun friend then anything is posible.

[misombra]

booboo you're a good guy. you deserve a good girl.

[Only-virgins]

My "crush" isn't 3 years but 9 and She was interested in me in the beginning as well. Go for it, you have nothing to lose and you won't make a fool out of yourself...unless your pants fall down when you meet her. You have had contact for a long time, you should have done something. Do something now, some of us only beg for luck like this but that is a pathetic dream for me. The girl I like will always have a boyfriend and I will always be the guy who needs to get over that girl. I know exactly what it must have felt like, the heart stopping feeling when you saw her....meh...with my girl I would have flown off the bike...I'm sticking to cars lol.