Do good looking college girls only go for good looking guys?

[nukl92]

I am an 18 year old male college freshman. some might read this post and remember me posting a few months ago about a girl i met and ended up getting no where with. Heres my background:

Had my first gf senior year of high school if u could even call it that. our parents worked together and my dad showed a picture of me to her mother and somehow the daughter got around to seeing it. she got my number through our parents and we texted for a while then i took her out one time. the next time was for her homecoming. after that, she would sometimes come visit me and vice versa, we didnt get to see each other that much because of school, work, and we lived about 45 minutes away from each other. i never really liked her that much but she was the first girl to show interest in me so of course, i took the opportunity. we broke up (if u could really call it a real relationship) we never really saw each other regularly, just texted alot, but when we were with each other we had a good time. So we ended that relationship after a few months. i saw her facecook a few weeks ago and i guess she is with another kid that looks very geeky and loserish (i dont mean to be mean or stereotypical, just how i feel) that makes me think that she either likes any guy she talks to ir she likes, geeky looking kids, which doesnt make me feel good if thats true.I hadnt met a girl until about a month or two ago, when a girl me and my 5 roommates knew from school needed a place to stay she lived with us for a little bit, she would party with is sometimes and one night she brought her friend over and we were drinking, my roommate told me her friend was looking at me throughout the night and blah blah blah. some things happened where the girl that was staying with us is kind of a wild child and u can say "gets around." she ran off to be with another guy at around 3 am in the morning on a saturday night, her friend that liked me is her best friend. the friend gets very worried and just a great friend and person. she was worried about her friend so i stayed with her and even went and helped her look for the friend that was staying with us. this part is getting a little long so ill just say that now the girl that liked me would come over everyday and help me with my homework and at the end of that night we would have a little fun and she would stay the night. (it never got THAT far, pertaining to the "fun" we had)

She is a great girl with a great personality, but im not very physically attracted to her, dont get me wrong, when were alone, my opinion changes, but i think thats just me being a male. anyway, i asked her why she liked me and she never mentioned anything about me physically, she just said she liked me because of how i treated her that night that i just explained. but im guessing she had to be a little physically attracted to me considering she kept looking at me through the night, before any of the other things went down.

i tell you all that to ask this. do college girls that are above average looking, go for regular looking guys that dont have a six pack, are athletic, or tall? i mean i have a little self confidence, i dont think im hideous, i like to dress and look nice, but i definitely dont pass as a model. i have a little beer belly and love handles, but im still a pretty slim kid. im not one of the bigger guys that u can tell are over weight or out of shape just by looking at them. (i hope that makes sense) Now im not talking about super models (that would be nice) but im also not talking about just a "cute" looking girl, because the girl that likes me is "cute" but the lower end of that. i hate to sound like that is all that im worried about, but im an 18 year old kid, im not looking for deep conversations, or a life companion. That statement scares me though because i fear that is exactly what college aged females think. sorry for the length but i wanted people to really understand me. i am going to keep rambling on below this, but that is really the end of the topic question. im just looking for any and all advice about females and how i should go about them and how they think about me. i guess the rest is "optional reading"

i feel like since i met one girl that likes me, that there has to be another one out there. the problem is, i dont get a chance to meet many females. i met another girl the first day of college, but that never ended up how i wanted, were now just "friends" as explained in the topic i talked about in the beginning of this post. i live with 5 of my best friends in a townhouse on campus, one has a gf, one has a girl that he talks to back home, and the others never really talk to girls or had gf's. my friends and i arent losers, they were all in sports in high school (i wasnt) and a few of them partied back in high school, the others didnt, including me. i changed that when i got to college, because i wanted to change and meet females, the others didnt change. so im not in a situation where my friends meet many girls and have them and their friends hang out with us, so i have the opportunity to meet more girls, and when at parties, most girls are already with guys. (i hope that makes sense) like i said, in high school, i wasnt a loser, but i also wasnt the extremely popular kid. i would talk to females in school and stuff, but they already had their friends, so they didnt need me being another one. so any advice about dating in college would be appreciated, i just really want to know if i could have a relationship with a girl that could obviously get a better looking guy. i feel that if a girl actually talks to me and hangs out with me that im a really nice guy, genuine, and a gentleman, not a guy that gets around. i just feel that college girls look for the exact opposite, guys that are just physically appealing. i know a GORGEOUS looking girl going out with a big, buff, "handsome" looking guy that hits her and doesnt always treat her the best. i dont really understand why she puts herself through that other than her just wanting a good looking guy becuase other than that, she has a great head on her shoulders. in high school she was in all honors classes and every organization possible and is a very responsible girl. ur "perfect girl" i think im done rambling, im very sorry for the length if u actually read all this, i just needed to vent and really explain my situation.

[nukl92]

for some reason it seems to look like i reposted my topic. i dont know how this happened, i was not trying to spam