Hey everyone... My girlfriend and I broke up two months ago. She ended things, due to my jealous/immature actions. Following the breakup, I tried pleading with her... And even begging. I even told her that I would cry myself to sleep... BIG MISTAKE, I know. There's nothing more unattractive to a woman than a man who appears needy and desperate.
After a couple weeks of no contact... I made her this big card, with 50 reasons why I love her, and bunch of other stuff that I thought would have an impact... But nope.
This was the first time a girl's ever broken up with me... So I had no idea how to deal with it. But after talking with friends, and reading up on strategies on the internet, I discovered that the best thing to do is to move on with my life, and not contact her for a while.
However... I'm worried that my desperate tactics may have dug a hole too deep for me to get out of. Is there any chance for me to recover from that? Or did I sabotage my chances completely?
Also, although I'm going to refrain from contacting her in general... I'm wondering if I should make an exception for Valentine's Day tomorrow? Just a text message saying something like "Hey stranger, just wanted to say Happy V-day." Or should I just stick to the no-contact thing?
Thanks ladies.