Sex Buddy

[lizzy_09]

What do you think about sex without love?

[Beach Life]

I don't think that you have to be head over heels in love to have sex, but you should care deeply about the other person.

Having said that, being in love with the person is MUCH better.

[vashti]

It would be great if they could work out, but I think people underestimate how difficult it is to maintain this kind of arrangement. It is pretty rare that there are no ulterior motives on one side or the other. Usually the girl (but not always) thinks this might be one step closer to having an actual relationship with the guy, while he just wants the sex. I've never seen it end well.

[doppelgaenger]

It gets old quick.

[Gigabitch]

I think it's a waste of time. Try masturbating instead. It's cleaner and less complicated. Nobody gets hurt.

[Mish]

It creates more problems than it's worth

[jlarkin7]

I have had plenty of that and now that I am married and so in love with my husband, I wish that I had been able to saave it for him. Without love, sex lowers your self esteem and it hurts you in the long run. It was meant to be shared with a person you love.

[Lost.Perspectiv]

I made a decision at one point to not have casual sex.

I've regretted some decisions I've made, but never this one.

[misombra]

make sure you charge.

[CAM]

Mis has an excellent point. It seems like lots of younger women in the town that I live, get tarted up, go out on the town, and "give it away." The feminists call it "liberation" yet it really is free sex. Not too far away, the real prostitutes walk the street wearing similar attire, also having sex without love, and yet getting paid for it.

Many young women have been deluded into believing that they can catch a nice guy with some honey. Usually, that doesn't happen that way, certainly not for that reason alone.

[Yggdrasil]

SLUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's the first thing that came to mind...

[Gigabitch]

It's quite sad, really, because in my experience, sex doesn't get really good until you know someone and feel comfortable with him. Random sex with random guys is pointless.

[boobaa]

I have had plenty of that and now that I am married and so in love with my husband, I wish that I had been able to saave it for him. Without love, sex lowers your self esteem and it hurts you in the long run. It was meant to be shared with a person you love.

Another slut girl.


Started too young, didn't you? craving for attention, needed to "explore" because you were more "mature"?

[little pingoin]

Who waits until they love someone before they have sex with him/her? (I'm sure some do but not most)

I used to think the number of sexual partners a person had was important. Why? Am I really going to love a person more if he's had sex with 4 people instead of 24 people? What does that say about me? Insecure? Shallow?

It's all a bit silly.

[CAM]

I used to think the number of sexual partners a person had was important. Why? Am I really going to love a person more if he's had sex with 4 people instead of 24 people? What does that say about me? Insecure? Shallow?

It's all a bit silly.

The number is important...because it tells you the cumulative probability that he/she has caught some for of STD that will ruin your life. More sex partners, the great the chance of an STD. An accident waiting to happen.