Last night I had a wonderful conversation at the bar.

[nonconformist]

Basically it led to this ending:

Me: You're not my type.
Girl: What's your type?
Me: Skinny.


/discuss

[girl68]

Funny, but you're not always such an asshole are you?

I mean sure, she's not your type but she did nothing to offend you so why would you go off and in a round about way call her a nasty fatass?

[Gribble]

Because some dudes are ****heads.

P.S. I love that ****heads isn't perceived as a misspelled word by Firefox.

[Chupacabras]

Big girls have developed personalities, hence the good conversation. The older I get the more I gravitate to 'em, since they there seems to be less bitchiness and cynicism. That and women my age that try to maintain their highschool weight look creepy.

[nonconformist]

Funny, but you're not always such an asshole are you?

I mean sure, she's not your type but she did nothing to offend you so why would you go off and in a round about way call her a nasty fatass?

This is only part of the conversation as I stated in the first post so you are just assuming that she did nothing to offend me. I also never called her a nasty fatass.

Also, I am usually not quite the asshole as this makes me out to be.

[nonconformist]

Because some dudes are ****heads.

P.S. I love that ****heads isn't perceived as a misspelled word by Firefox.

Is that supposed to hurt my feelings?

[nonconformist]

Big girls have developed personalities, hence the good conversation. The older I get the more I gravitate to 'em, since they there seems to be less bitchiness and cynicism. That and women my age that try to maintain their highschool weight look creepy.

Well yes I agree with some of what you say, but I am 21 and you are making it out to seem that you are much older than that so just by pure common sense guys my age are usually much more shallow then guys twice my age.





I should've just used quote+.

[girl68]

I also never called her a nasty fatass.

Please if you will, re-read my first post I said in a "round about way..." you did call her fat, you just didn't say "fat".

[Chupacabras]

In that case, making a flip comment like that to a nice girl shows a real lack of character.

[chump4u]

Also, I am usually not quite the asshole as this makes me out to be.

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Not always an asshole? Why don't you show us something different, then?

In another post (also set in a bar, btw), you described how you humiliated some poor girl who asked you to buy her a drink. In this post, you tell us that you humiliated some poor girl who had the bad luck-- or bad taste-- to get into a conversation with you.

Sorry, asshole, but you're always an asshole.

By the evidence presented, probably a drunken asshole, as well.

[nonconformist]

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Not always an asshole? Why don't you show us something different, then?

In another post (also set in a bar, btw), you described how you humiliated some poor girl who asked you to buy her a drink. In this post, you tell us that you humiliated some poor girl who had the bad luck-- or bad taste-- to get into a conversation with you.

Sorry, asshole, but you're always an asshole.

By the evidence presented, probably a drunken asshole, as well.

I clearly don't go to bars trying to pick up women, they try to pick me up. I just shoot them down because, well, it's quite hilarious. These women I come in contact with at the bars I go to, they are all trailer park trash and aren't very smart. You are all talking up these 2 specific women that I have shot down like you know them and how they are amazing and great people. You don't know them nor you don't know me and you continually try to bash me.

[IndiReloaded]

Its no different from when I bash someone here for being stupid. I understand the tendency.

And... just *maybe* the girl you make cry b/c you called her fat WILL be motivated enough to think "fuk you...I'm gonna hit the gym and get skinny then!". Just like I hope some people will think a bit more when I ride them hard.

But yes, it does make you an asshole. No point denying it.

[Chupacabras]

So negging women that approach me is the okay thing to do now?

No, it's not. Insulting someone that gets the nerve up to approach is bad manners and it's not your place to shame someone into bettering themselves just because they had the gall to express interest.

[IndiReloaded]

So negging women that approach me is the okay thing to do now?

No, it's not you are right. Insulting someone that gets the nerve up to approach is bad manners and it's not your place to shame someone into bettering themselves just because they had the gall to express interest.

Who said it was okay? I said it makes him an asshole. I agree with you. In fact, I describe in another thread how I handled a guy who deliberately used this 'negging' tek-neek on me in a pub once.

I suppose the analogy for me (re: stupid people) would be if a fat chick comes up to you, you [politely] tell her you aren't interested, and then she continues to tell you all the reasons why fat people should be bought drinks just as often as an attractive skinny girl. IMO, that person has crossed a boundary and is fair game.

[Heratriumphant]

You know what I missed the most when I first lost weight?

The a**hole repellant.

No one ever warns you when you set out to lose weight, that for every pound you lose you find a jerk trying to climb up on you.