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    Girl I have had a crush on just broke up with her BF

    Past:

    -She was in my class
    -She asked me out when she was drunk
    -I was too much of an idiot to follow through
    -I asked her out later (about 3 months later)
    -She had a boyfriend by the time I asked her

    Now

    -Just shooting the chit texting
    -I ask her if she wants to get drinks tomorrow
    -She says "that would be really nice! "
    -I ask her how her boyfriend is
    -She replies, "ha we actually just broke up about 3 weeks ago"



    Still on for drinks tomorrow.

    Am I gonna get some?

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    anyone.....?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mark1 View Post
    Past:

    -She was in my class
    -She asked me out when she was drunk
    -I was too much of an idiot to follow through
    -I asked her out later (about 3 months later)
    -She had a boyfriend by the time I asked her

    Now

    -Just shooting the chit texting
    -I ask her if she wants to get drinks tomorrow
    -She says "that would be really nice! "
    -I ask her how her boyfriend is
    -She replies, "ha we actually just broke up about 3 weeks ago"



    Still on for drinks tomorrow.

    Am I gonna get some?
    If you assume you're just going to "get some" because she is single and wants to have drinks with you, then you're sadly confused on how the whole thing works. "Getting some" is entirely how you act and if you actually seem attractive to her when she is sober. I think you should try for a second date instead of sex right away, because I don't think you're just going to "get some" from too many girls who are sober. If this is your plan, I think you should hit the clubs and start hitting on girls around 1:00am, that is how you "get some".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mark1 View Post
    -She replies, "ha we actually just broke up about 3 weeks ago"
    Still on for drinks tomorrow.

    Am I gonna get some?
    LOL, maybe. Sounds like Green Light Go at least for dating. Stop being a pig.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cerby View Post
    If you assume you're just going to "get some" because she is single and wants to have drinks with you, then you're sadly confused on how the whole thing works. "Getting some" is entirely how you act and if you actually seem attractive to her when she is sober. I think you should try for a second date instead of sex right away, because I don't think you're just going to "get some" from too many girls who are sober. If this is your plan, I think you should hit the clubs and start hitting on girls around 1:00am, that is how you "get some".
    any advice on if I just want some?

    I think I may take your advice, and ask her on a real date after drinks.

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    Why don't you just go out with her and ask if she's into some NSA sex? She might say yes, if she likes you enough and you've got some moves.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Why don't you just go out with her and ask if she's into some NSA sex? She might say yes, if she likes you enough and you've got some moves.
    This is pretty much the best plan, just ask. If it is NSA and she is down with it, then it will be a simple question with a simple answer.

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