Tips for Deep throat?

[Di741111]

Hi there, I've been having this problem with deep throat, i just can't do it! I can make my bf cum by oral (we do it like once a week or so), but i just can't do deep throat.
I know that he loves it (which guy doesn't), and I really want to be able to do it for him, we've done some research together, and got some 'good-head lube' and different positions, but I still can't do it.
Hes about 8, and I can fit only half in, i don't know if there's something wrong with my throat or I'm just doing something wrong.

please give me some tips for it..

[lahnnabell]

At least he's not shouldering you with the entire responsibility of this. I'm glad to see you two have done research together and have tried different methods, but it may just come (hehe) down to the fact that your mouth maybe tiny. Is he really wide? That tends to be more difficult for me as I have TMJ issues, so I have to be careful about crankin' my jaw open sometimes (sexy, right? )

I can't really deep-throat like a porn star, and my boyfriend actually prefers that I don't. He really enjoys extra lubrication and stimulation with my hand as I'm using my mouth. I'll usually get him extra wet and begin to work my hand at his base in time to my mouth around his head while I'm swirling my tongue in circles.

What also matters in giving good head is performance. Not just the act of sucking at his c*ck, but how you look when you do it. Do you look like you're enjoying it, or are you rolling your eyes when he asks you for more lubrication? I love looking up at my guy when I catch him watching me. Tell him he has a beautiful d*ck and that you love sucking it.

My favorite thing ('cause it gets the strongest reaction from my guy) is gathering extra saliva in my mouth so that when I give his head of couple of swirls from my tongue he can see those little lines of saliva connecting my tongue and his d*ck.

Any of that help?

[lahnnabell]

Oh, and for the record, since you asked...

One of the tricks to deep-throating is to relax the muscles in your face and throat. If you're straining to fit him in, it's only going to cause your muscles to contract and he'll stop at the back of your throat.

However, if you have an active gag reflex, sliding him into your throat will be especially difficult. It can be quite a turn off for a guy to hear his g/f gagging on his d*ck, but hopefully he'll be willing to work with you on this.

Also, practice breathing through your nose. Most people don't realize that they may breathe through their mouth a lot, so practice letting air in and out through your nose only. This will help you prolong the deep-throating experience while still enabling you to breathe.

[Cbrider]

Lahnna, you should write the Wikipedia page for this!

[lahnnabell]

Lahnna, you should write the Wikipedia page for this!

Hahaha. Yesss.

[CocoChanel]

Giving head is a blow job but also a hand job. Because of my fiance's size I will never be able to deep throat him. User the tips lahna gave you and work your hands

[Di741111]

Do you look like you're enjoying it, or are you rolling your eyes when he asks you for more lubrication?
Any of that help?

wow this post helped a lot, it's funny cause yesterday i asked him what he'd like me to do when i give head, he told me whatever I like to do, cause I look like I'm really enjoying doing it.

I know he likes me to go all the way down with my mouth, he doesn't really like my hands on the shaft, but i have no choice, cause i can't do deep throat all the time..

I'll try to relax more, thanks for the tips!!

[qwertz]

I cant really give tips on deep throating as i find it easy and dont have to think about it as such..but guys find the fact that your enjoying it a turn on in itself IME ..handy, seeing as i do

[lahnnabell]

I've heard that some guys don't like hand contact because it doesn't feel the same as your warm wet tongue and mouth (which is essence a simulation of your vagina). If you get him wet enough (I'm talking really slick) your hand around his base will feel more like your mouth.

Also, practice jerking him off. Guys are used to handling that themselves, so when a girl does it, she never quite gets the right rhythm or the squeezes the right way. My boyfriend was pleasantly surprised by me because he never enjoyed it when any other women jerked him off. Ask your boyfriend how he likes it, have him watch you, and you can adjust accordingly.

Also, thank him for being so involved in this effort. Make sure he knows that you appreciate it. You're doing a good job so far!

[Di741111]

Thanks lahnna, will do!

[Perryville]

DI, I'm about the same size as your BF but pretty big around, and would never expect a woman to be able to take me DT. I get no passion from a gagging , choking woman. My advice is to take as much as you can comfortably and tell him that's all she wrote.

[Di741111]

DI, I'm about the same size as your BF but pretty big around, and would never expect a woman to be able to take me DT. I get no passion from a gagging , choking woman. My advice is to take as much as you can comfortably and tell him that's all she wrote.

I don't know about all guys, but sometimes he would lose control and push my head down, and one time I choked really bad, after that he stopped doing that. I have this really strong gag reaction everytime, maybe my throat is just like weird like that...
I'll keep trying though ^^

[qwertz]

yeh id be pissed if a guy did that..When deep throating I take control as i know how far down it can go- your throat isnt weird, i dont have a strong gag reflex but i think even i would gag then.
If you dont want to do it then dont. Dont feel you have to 'just because'

[Perryville]

I dated one Lady , who could take quite a bit, but would go all purple in the face. How is that sexy? I really like it when the woman is enjoying her self, instead of looking like she's epileptic.

[qwertz]

she mustve been trying so hard lol, **** that, it would ruin my mood if i had to put that much effort in!