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    Please help me, i think i've just ruined it?

    A couple of days ago i saw my neighbor who i don't see that often at all, and i started to look at him differently, but because his timetable does not correlate with mine in anyway i though it would be a good idea to find out what time he goes to work and comes back, so that i can at least be outside then and try to become his friend.
    This morning i was sitting downstairs with my camera trying to take a picture of his car (to send to a friend, it was right in front of my big window and the window has a net curtain) and i got up to look out of the window and saw him walking to his car and i thought here is my big chance why not take a pic of him too (i know it sound stalkish but i was just taken by the moment, besides what wouldn't you do if you had a massive crush), so i turned it on and just as i was about to take it he looked into my window and paused for a couple of seconds sort of like he was looking into his own reflection (i hope so anyway!) but i saw that he looked me straight in the eyes.
    So now i'm panicking, what if he saw me with a camera looking at him through a window just when he was about to go to work - he is soooo going to get the wrong impression.
    I really don't know what to say if he asks me about it, i'm really worried because i really like him and if i've just ruined it i'll be devastated!! Do you think he would be able to overcome it even if he did see me????
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    He is a bit older than (i'm 17 he's about 21).

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    That is straight up creepy... trust me he won't ask but he probably is creeped out now. Why the HELL are you taking a picture of his car?

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    That is hugely creepy. Although, he's young enough (21) that he might not realize how creepy it actually is. So his inexperience might give this girl a second chance. But she shouldn't be doing weird crap like this. It's this sort of stuff that makes a man run for the hills.

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