I need good advice!!

[dreameak]

My girlfriend and I broke up a few days ago. It was my fault. I broke her trust but it was not because I cheated. I believe it can be fixed. After her saying she doesn't want me in her life right now. I let her be. Three days later she texts me. She admitted he missed me, even though she had a total rebound/drunk fest this weekend. I knew I couldn't act mad or jealous. She agreed that she wanted to slowly work things out, however that she also just wants to live up her last month where she lives before he moves home. She said that it would include other people and she didn't want me to hate her in the end and think that she doesn't care and that's why she did that. I said if its meant to be it'll work out. That I just don't want to know about the stuff she is doing. What should I do?

[ttylox]

I knew I couldn't act mad or jealous. She agreed that she wanted to slowly work things out, however that she also just wants to live up her last month where she lives before he moves home.

Can you explain this line? I don't understand what you mean she's doing... is "home" living with you? So she wants to go out and be a whore for a while then come back to you? You really need help with this issue?

[dreameak]

I meant. She is away at college in a different state rigt now. When she comes back to the town we both live in.

[ttylox]

Ok so she wants to party and go wild until she comes back home to you. Which will likely (read: definitely) involve hooking up with other dudes. So you're asking if you should wait around while she does that and then take her back?

It's crazy to me that you'd even consider that. It doesn't matter who's fault the breakup was - you shouldn't feel so guilty that you'd let her do this to you. What makes you think she's not gonna just find some reason to break up with you every time she wants to hook up with someone else?

I guess, man - do whatever you want but if you take her back, and it sounds like you probably will, at least have her get tested before you knock boots again.