What A Mess

[LoveCanHurt]

What does one do when it seems like there is still a glimmer of hope.
Does one wait like like the saying goes.
"If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was."

Or

Does one get on with things and take the dates that come your way?

Waiting seems to make the ghosts linger on, along with the hurt. (Anyone have this happen. You are standing someplace & this sense comes over you and you turn around, expecting to see him there. Happens in a lot of places in my house and church. I've almost reached out for the hand that was not there.

Going on with life and dating seems so unfair to those you are dating. Seems especially bad if it seems like the guy you meet up with on a date likes you and you can't get the last one off your mind. I mean I'd hate to be on a date if the guy was thinking about his last girlfriend and I thought we could connect.

[xxazurexx]

It's unwise to start dating new guys and when you aren't over the last guy. It's known as 'rebounding'.

You would be best off having time out alone and until you are over your ex. You can still have a life outside of dating believe it or not...