My boyfriend is 6'3 and 300lbs with the build of a football player. He absolutely doesn't look that heavy, and trust me there are NO issues with attraction. I love the way he looks and at times don't want him to change, but I encourage him to because he wants to, and wants to maintain his health. All good with me, we plan on joining a gym after Christmas.
The problem is, not many sex positions work.. He does have a very large belly that gets in the way. Doggy style doesn't go as deep, the side position isn't satisfying, and the only one that seems to work wonders for us is him on top of me. I love it, I can tell he loves it, its just right but, I do want to keep some variety in our sex lives. BTW because of children, sex is confined to our bed only (I've read something about sitting on chairs) And if it helps any, its a queen bed with box spring and no frame, that sits on the floor.
Have any heavier men experienced positions that work well? Any women been with a heavier man and found certain things to work? Also, if it matters, his penis is the perfect size for me, between 6 1/2 - 7 I'm guessing.