How to approach her?

[miguel]

There is a girl I am interested in, but she has a boyfriend. She has previously flirted with me a lot and this is something she doesn't do most of the time. She blushes, acts very cute, gets sexy. I take these as good signals, but the boyfriend is a real obstacle to any kind of romantic understanding.

I was thinking on the lines of telling her we should know ourselves better to see if it's a good idea to start a relationship in the future, giving her time to think if I am a good match for her or not. And also if her current boyfriend is doing a good job or not. The problem is I am a very private person and don't have much social skills to begin with, but I am working on that.

All my life I have rejected love relationships out of fear, but now I am determined to get this girl. Do you have any advice on my course of action?.

[surfhb2]

Don't say anything to her or you'll look foolish

Find another girl who doesn't have a bf.....believe me, if this girl really likes you, that will drive her nuts.

[smackie9]

Absolutely....put some serious distance between you. If she wants you bad enough she will ditch that BF of hers. If she doesn't she is just a big c ock tease and a waste of your time.

[stev123]

Lock her in a room and tell her to prepare her anus