Originally Posted by
girl68
It matters who the girl is... but I also think you do not know what real love is.
You want a girl just becasue you want A girl. You want a chase, you want the "butterflies" its like getting high for you. You just chase so that you have something to do, but once you get that something it loses value and fast. This is a big problem.
You get bored easily but you're also not trying hard enough. Relationships can get boring however you also need to put some work into it. Are you spicing things up? Are you taking action, planning dates, suggesting lingerie, games, toys, positions?