Is there a future for us??

[sss]

Hiya!

Im new to this forum but have found myself in a sticky situation so i decided to post on here.
Basically i have been seeing this guy 4 10 months nw. He was the one who spoke to me and pursued me until i eventually gave in after 7 months n took hs numba.
At first everything was great. We work near 1 another so used 2 meet up in the morning, at lunch n afta work.
But 3 weeks into seeing each other he told me tht he has a 7 year old son with his ex who is an english girl. I am pakistani n so is he.
Ignorantly, i still carried on seeing him.
A few months later we had both fallen deeply for each otha.

A few months later and he started to distance himself from me by seeing me less. I askd hm why and he eventually told me tht his sisters have been having a go at him for always coming home late. But then he went on to tell me tht his mum and dad have both passed away and thts why his older sisters control what he does. His uncle had promised his dad tht he wud get hm married to a girl of their caste.

Coz we thought we didnt ave a future, we decided to end it. Bt tht neva lasts long n we r drawn back to each otha lyk magnets. This tends to make us stronger as a couple aswell.
The way i feel about him, iv neva felt with any1 else and its the same 4 hm.

He has said tht if it was not 4 his baggage and family situation then he knows we wud be married by now n id be pregnant, lol.

He is so respectful, caring, considerate and a gud influence on me. Btw, he is 35 n im 25..tht wud be an issue tht my family wud play on. Iv neva bin as happy as i am with hm n its tgge rsame 4 him.

I want to marry hm n so does he bt we ave so much to think about coz my family wud neva agree with his baggage, age, caste, etc.

His ex also knows about n so has stopped his contact with his son coz she is the jealous type n stil loved him bt think she hates hm nw. Btw, tht pregnancy was neva planned n she was supposed to be on the pill.

His uncle is also very old n sick so he cnt tel hm about us at mo coz it myt finish hm off.

Do u think we have a future? Othas opinions wud b helpful. Thanks! x

[Boisdevie]

No, you don't have a future because he'll continue to be oppressed and dominated by his culture/caste. He is unable or unwilling to stop this happening. That's what happens when you live in the modern world with wacky loony religious and cultural values from the 17th century.

And how in hell is a grown man of 35 dominated by his sisters. He's either a pussy or using them as an excuse.

[shaz123]

sounds like excuses to me...no future, sorry x

[norma1dude]

I would say no.

[RipVanWinkleX]

"He was the one who spoke to me and pursued me until i eventually gave in after 7 months n took hs numba."

A guy 10 years older kept pursing you for 7 mouths? Sounds creepy to me >.<