Question about first time...

[UnShuRe]

Ok. I guess I will start of with explaining what is going on in my life. I would appreciate some helpful feedback. Ok. I met this girl around 6 months ago, through a mutual (sp?) friend. She was pregnant at the time from a guy who had left her once he found out she was. So we became pretty good friends. Then about 2 months ago, we became closer, not really going out but talked alot more, blah blah...So she had her baby 1 month ago and I was there for her throughout the whole time. Now we're together, and I think of her child as my own and have a lot of feelings for the both of them.

Ok now that I got that out of the way, even though I don't think it's part of the question, but I though I'd add it anyways. Ok now the problem:

I'm a virgin at 19, mostly by choice. It's not that I'm waiting for marriage or ne thing like that. It's basically fear at my part. And with this girl I'm with now, not sayin we will have sex soon. But I know that she is obviously more advanced then me. And I know she probably will expect good sex nonethe less. My problem is, I'm scared that I won't be good enough for her and that I won't last long. Is there any way at all to determine how long I will last? That my sound stupid, but I don't want to look like an idiot with this girl. She means alot to me and I want to be able to please her. I'm open for any kind of feedback. Thanks for your time.

[sfalexi]

If you masterbate, you can go longer. If you make yourself orgasm just before having sex with her (half hour or so), it'll take longer.

But me personally, I wouldn't worry about it at all. If she cares for you, she's not gonna care whether it was short or not. And if she knows you're a virgin, she'll understand that for the first time, it'll be shorter. And she knows that the more often you do it, the longer you'll be able to last.

I say don't worry about it. I'm sure others will agree.

Alexi

PS - Incidentally, if it is very short the first time, why not casually suggest that you give it another go in a few minutes when your mandingo is ready for his second helping? It'd be twice in one night for you and the second time is bound to be longer.