Can't Shake This Feeling

[lilmissmood]

Need some opinions...

My boyfriend recently returned back from Bali. He was there for 2 weeks with some friends. I didn't want him to go in the first place because i wasn't sure about the whole situation.

When he come back he was different. He was distant and didn't want to touch me and was really nasty. I have this ache in my heart that is telling me that he cheated on me over in Bali!

Since then i have been doing some dectective work...now im thinking i should have just left it because im petrified that i may be right!!!! I asked one of the people he went over there with and then found out that she ran straight back to him and asked him what she should say.....when i found out that she went back to him i confronted her about it and she told me it was none of her business and that i needed to work it out with him! This morning i found a message from her saying ' i feel like the bad person, i think deep down she knows, you need to talk to her so you guys can work it out.....'

Well....I asked him. I said did you cheat on me, tell me the truth....then he did the whole...don't you trust me blah blah we shouldn't be together if you don't trust me!! So he completely dodged the question!!!

I don't want it to be true, we have been together for three years, but i don't want to be with him if he can't tell me the truth!! If he had told me when he first got back straight away, things may be different. But it's been a month and i don't know what to do!!

He also doesn't know that i seen the message this morning, so i have done the bad also and been snooping....

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[smackie9]

Dump him because you know it's true. That will be the only way he will come clean with you.