****kk, advice ASAP!

[jenniferx]

Right now I am kind of stressing out about having a guy I'm seeing losing interest. When I start to like a guy I always have a really hard time knowing what to say...I feel like all I'm saying is uninteresting. Generally, I am a pretty serious person so I have no problem at all with deep conversations. But I feel like there needs to be some goofing around/flirting time as well..which when it comes around, I just freeze up with and am at a loss for words.

ANYWAYS long story short. what are ways I can show (not physica but verball) affection better so he doesnt lose interest. It is seriously making me hateee myself.

[nerdy_guy]

Whatever you do, don't make a fool of yourself (Not helping at all huh?)

[jenniferx]

Nope, not at all!

[nerdy_guy]

Try formulating questions as to what makes him tick. you know, learn how to push his buttons. (still not helping?)

[lahnnabell]

Stop being afraid to make a fool of yourself. Usually, when I have trouble getting to know someone, I just stop caring about what the person thinks of me. I tend to be a little accident prone and sometimes I say very blunt things, but I figure that I'd better be myself upfront. If he doesn't like it, then he knows that we're not a good match and he can look for someone else.

Don't treat it so seriously. Perhaps you guys just don't have the right chemistry. You can't force it if it isn't there, y'know?

[adam95]

yeah just be yourself. im sure if he likes you, he'll find anything you say interesting

[Raze]

Tell him that you like his sleeves.