I started a new job over a month ago. One of the employees is about 8 years older than me. We have this chemistry that is undeniable. However, I am a college grad and got a job in management. He is going to community college and works at 2 minimum wage jobs. I always thought that I would be with someone who is successful but lately, I have been with men who treat me bad. He could potentially treat me really well. Is it worth it to give it a try? Or am I lowering my standards?