Hi,

I was friends with a girl for the past 2 years, now we are in different cities. While chatting with her about a month back , I told her that I missed her and on subsequent chats, I told her that I loved her. We cannot get married because of personal problems but we decided to get into a relationship anyway to enjoy each others company.
Two weeks later, I visited her, we became really close and ended up having sex.

After I came back to my city, we chatted/texted almost daily and she used to say that she missed.
One day when I missed her too much and she was not in contact with since for a few days, I spoke rudely to her and put down the phone. She hasn't been the same since.

Now she never texts me or says I love you, yet she does chat with me as friends sometimes...
I have stepped back a bit, only messaged her once in two weeks.

How can I get back with her again, I dont want her to ignore me and most of all I dont want to lose my friend, like she was before our relationship

Please advise

Thanks