why do i feel like my girlfriend is losing interest?

[mattwilson]

we have been together 5 months. i don't know why but the past couple of days i feel like she is losing interest

i can't give any examples that she has done i just feel it

should i talk to her about it or should i just see what happens?

i mean she still tells me she loves me and she is wanting to take a weekend trip to chicago next month...so maybe i'm just paranoid?

[Kromat83]

if it's bothering you, I think you should talk about it, most of the time, our gut feelings are right, so why take that chance, when you think there could be a problem.

you'll feel so much better, when you have the questions answered

[Am I crazy?]

Talk to her but you may want to be able to give her reasons why you feel this way. There are two possible explanations. Either she has lots of other stuff on her mind distracting her or after 5 months she is coming to the conclusion that you two do not have a future.

[michelle23]

The honeymoon period is fading which is why you probably feel like something is wrong which is normal but just try to relax and go with the flow. If you have nothing specific to worry about then you are probably just worrying over nothing. It takes time to go from infatuation to something deeper, to understand each other and read each other. I dont think you should say anything for now and just focus on making her happy

Good luck