Originally Posted by
sarahprincess
Hmm, well that statement to me sounds kind of like something my ex said to me when I broke my relationship off. He said I wouldnt find anyone who would treat me better and that I expected too much from him. I read up on it a bit, and they say those are signs of emotional abuse. Trying to convince you that you are worth less than you actually are kind of thing to manipulate you. I'd be a bit wary. If she is upset about your lack of phone time, I would probably let her know that she needs to be the one to take the initiative then.
I think you did the right thing at not telling her what you are up to with your friends. I dont understand why she would be paranoid, she is taking a break from you, not the other way around. People mourn in different ways, doesnt mean you are not upset about the situation.