ugh, just found this out...

[Teezy]

I just fond out my girlfriend of 8 months has been with 40 guys. I've been with 7 girls, including her.

I shouldn't have asked, but she asked me the other night and I said "it's not a big deal, it doesn't matter" but she got it out of me. I don't know, I just can't get over it. That's a lot. I don't want anything to change between us but i'm afraid that it can't be helped.

[Steve2004]

holy ****ing shit. 40!?

sorry. but..holy jesus. how old are y'all?

[Teezy]

she's 22, i'm 23. she's from paris though, maybe they do things differently over there?

[vashti]

I hope you are wearing protection. The odds that she has contracted some sort of STD are very high, and may be viral, meaning she can't get rid of it (HPV, HIV, Herpes, Hepatitis).

[Steve2004]

yea, it seems like it's unavoidable for problems to come up...oh man. that is a lot of guys.

[vashti]

Teezy - have you been wearing protection? You may want to schedule a visit with a physician. Don't panic; STDs can be treated.

[Teezy]

no because she's on the pill. **** i wish she would have told me.

[TDurden]

What the ****?!? That's ridiculous! That's just...how the **** does happen?

She most definitely has at least one STD. Wrap your rascal twice, man, just to be safe.

Seriously though, if it continues to bother you I think it's perfectly reasonable to sit down and talk with her about. It may be in the past but that number is high enough that further discussion wouldn't be unwarranted. Just try and refrain from sounding too judgemental if you do decide to talk about it with her

[Steve2004]

i think that's shitty that she didn't tell you before. If she's been with 40 guys..she must be an idiot to not know that it's quite possible she has some kind of STD. I'd think she was a bitch for letting you have unprotected sex when she knows how many guys she's slept with.

[Teezy]

that's what i'm worried about. I don't want to make her feel guilty about it because she told me she's not proud of it. but at the same time i want her to know that i don't like it. i think i will wait a few days and gather my thoughts on it before i talk to her. it was a big shock at first.

[Teezy]

I also don't want to break her heart and tell her that i don't want to sleep with her anymore, but a part of me feels that way. this is ****ed up.

[anachronistic]

i'm sorry, i just don't believe that. i think she's lying to you.

[Teezy]

dude she's not lying.

[vashti]

Maybe she has had herself tested recently. You should ask her.

(You should still have yourself tested, though.)

[TDurden]

i'm sorry, i just don't believe that. i think she's lying to you.

Why would she lie? That doesn't make any sense