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    How can i move on from being rejected by this girl?

    I met a girl and was her friend for a while, but i had a feeling that it wasn't going to work out. I ignored it and kept learning about her. I had feelings for her and wished that i could let her know how i felt. I did nice things for her, hoping she would know that i cared about her. She did share her personal problems with me and it hurt me to know that she was suffering on the inside. I tried to help her the best way i could. When she spilled something on accident, i told her that i would be the one to help her. I wanted to take care of her and be there for her. I disliked it when she talked about my interest in other women. I knew that she didn't realize that i liked her. I finally needed to show her how i truly felt and told her that i liked her and asked her out in a way. She told me she liked what i told her, but her parents didn't let her date and later told me to never speak to her again. It hurt me a lot and i was upset, not because she did that, but about that feeling and the feeling that her parents somehow turned her against me. I know there's little hope of ever being her friend, but it's still upsetting that her parents would do something like that. How do i move on?

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    How old are you and this girl? If you're both 15 my answer would be very different to if you're 25.

    Also, do you know for sure that her parents have asked you not to see her? It's not uncommon for young people to use parental rules as an excuse for not doing something.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by basilandthyme View Post
    How old are you and this girl? If you're both 15 my answer would be very different to if you're 25.

    Also, do you know for sure that her parents have asked you not to see her? It's not uncommon for young people to use parental rules as an excuse for not doing something.
    Shes younger than i am. I know her parents don't want her to date because she told me herself. I figure that she was honest about it. I think that she may have liked me, but seeing she couldn't return any feelings, she stopped liking me.

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    You are young. I wouldn't worry about it, move on to the next one. You probably won't even remember this in 10 years and if you do realize you tried, so no regrets.
    Last edited by FlaCooln; 19-03-13 at 12:17 PM.

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