Strange situation

[manwithahat]

Hello.

I met this wonderfull girl two weeks ago and I have been seeing here alot since then. I really have good feelings about her and we seem to fit together very well.

However I have two big problems.

The first problem is that my plan is to continue my studies abroad next fall for the next two years. However now that I have met here I am kind of confused. And I haven´t yet told her that my plan is to go abroad in the end of august. She has just received a new job position at another firm and she will start working there this fall.

The second problem is that I think my roommate was dating this girl some months ago but I didn´t no until he came to me today and was acting really strange. He asked me if I was dating this girl like he knew her. Furthermore I think she realized today that we are roommates because when I met her the same day she was also acting a little strange. This doesn´t bother me but I think it might get a little wierd if she would meet me around my roommate.

So what should I do ???

[Gigabitch]

OMG, you need to communicate! With everyone! Roommate first, then girlfriend. It is only going to get worse if you don't clear the air immediately.

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[TAVS]

Yea you need to be honest with her and respect her thoughts. If I were her, for example, I wouldn't be interested in that relationship at this time. Long Distance is nothing good.