Help! Going to gf house, what to bring ?

[james.zelo]

Hello again forum.

Please I need some help on something.

Background:
We've been on 7 dates, we started to make out since the 3rd, we are quite close, I think she is my gf.

I haven't seen her for 6 days. She is very sick, I think I am going to visit her soon, tomorrow I think.

What should I bring her ? How about her parents ?

For her mother, should I buy flowers?

For her, box of chocolate ? I don't think she is allowed to eat that ...
Flowers ? What kind ? Red rose ?

Thx in advance

[iateyourcookie]

Maybe bring some hot soup or some congee/porridge along for her? Those are pretty much what sick people usually eat (okay, I eat them when I fall sick) but that's my suggestion.

And for her parents? Not sure about that. Don't give them flowers yet... I mean you're just going there to visit her. But bring flowers if you intend to ask her out on a date when her parents are around. Just explain politely that you heard that she is sick and you are worried for her, her parents will understand. It shows that you care for her alot. Good luck.

[james.zelo]

I thought at soup also but it's not a flew or something like that it's something else.

So for her parents I should go empty handed ? I can't ask her out because she can't really get out of bed for now.

But any other ides for her ?

[lahnnabell]

Well, what is she sick with? Start with that and use it to determine what sorts of things you could bring her that would comfort her. A heating pad to relax any aches and pains? Ginger ale for an upset stomach? Cough drops for her sore throat? A funny book to read, or movie to watch while she's laid up in bed.