Trying to Repair Relationship : It's Hard

[S57]

Greetings all,
I am new to this forum but I was hoping to get some advice on this situation I am in. A few months ago I was seeing this girl who I really really liked and it came to a screaching halt, mainly my fault. I waited a bit long, a couple of months before I realized I needed to apologize for my part. I e-mailed her, as that's about the only way I can communicate with her at this time and I told her I was really sorry and issed her but I did not imply we should try things again simply because I didn't want the e-mail to seem like I was doing this only to get her back. She hasn't replied as of yet and I don't know where things stand. Should I wait a few days, and if she doesn't respond, send another message telling her that I woudl like to try to start things over and see where they go? I just don't want to come across as being too obsessed with her and needy and what not. But I really have strong feelings for her and I hate to see something that could be good go to waste by doing nothing else. Any advice?
Thank you all

[Cybog]

Tell me what you mean by "your fault" and that you needed to apologize for your fault.

What happened?

[knightlionheart]

hey man, relax its not the end of the world or something!! i'm assuming u had a fling on the side to mess things up right!! then u totally deserve shit, and she's better off!! but i usually stand up for guys, so i guess its that time of the month for her something, or u just plain started becoming boring for her or something!! well man u did ur part, just mail her telling u want to meet up and stuff, probably to collect yer things or retuyrn hers....she should realize that things r better off this way, both of ya r gonna b happy!!

[Cybog]

Wow. That was deep.

[Laguna]

Yea, what happened between you guys and that will determine how many/when to send e-mails and contacting her.

[knightlionheart]

so how u holding up dude!! Meet my best friend, steinlager!! works wonders...just kidding man!!