I have a two part question here. Let me first explain the situation. I am a 41 year old male who lives in the USA and I have been talking with a 20 year old girl who lives in the UK. We have been talking everyday for at least 3 hours per day for more than 7 months. I feel that I have fallen in love with her and she says that she has as well with me, but she really isnt sure of it because her mom says that it is impossible to fall in love with someone you have never met. I will be going to meet her next year, and if everything goes well, I will be moving there to be near her. But a problem arises. She is sure that her parents will not accept our age difference, and she does not want to anger her parents. She has suggested that we keep our romance a secret, but I cant do this. I have told her that if we want this to work, we must be honest and open about it. We cant forever sneak around hoping someone wont see us. She and I are now both worried that her parents will not accept our relationship and this will be the end. The last thing I want to do is come between her and her parents.
So, my two questions are:
1. Do you think it is possible to love someone you have never met?
2. What do you think about the age difference.
Any and all answers on this will be helpful. Thank you.