Ok, heres the short story. Had been with my ex gf for 3 years. She was younger than me and I had been with her throughout uni. She started uni and dumped me for reasons which I tought seemed a bit lame but maybe they were not. This was in October. She came over a few months ago to drop of my stuff. I had not been in touch with her since. I thought I was getting over it OK. When she came round I found out, she had been experiementing with same sex relationships, but had settled for a drummer in band who she bought £100+ drums for for his bday and was moving in with in a month or so. I felt really really down. I introduced her to that type of music, so really didnt want to know the details of her life.
Now I cannot do anything that reminds me of her. She is always on my mind. I cannot listen to the music I like, I cannot go to the places we went to. This is nearly sixth months on!
Any suggestions on what to do?? Shall I do what I normally would do and hope things will go away, or shall I avoid them till I don't think about it.
It is playing on my mind and I'm scared I'm gonna mess up my exams again cos of her and I need my life to move on!
Help?