Blew My Chance?

[razorbacknation]

Hi everyone,
Here's the situation. I fell in love with my best friend from college. She's a great woman and we dated for a bit a few years ago, but when we were living with her parents at the time, her parents drove me to move out and move back to another state, she tried to get me to stay, but I told her I couldn't take her parents anymore and I moved anyway. Well now it's been about almost two years since I left and now I'm back moving in with her. And I thought I had gotten my feelings for her out of my system. But I recently found out I havent. Which is unfornate for me because she has a boyfriend now. And I don't want to hurt their relationship for my selfish needs. But I can't take not being with her. What do I do?

[FullofSighs]

Give it time, if she still has any feelings for you then she will come to you if they become stronger than the ones she has with her current bf. Just don't step in the way of the relationship, but also keep in well contact with her, as if you were her boyfriend

[razorbacknation]

Thanks. I'll try that and see what happens.

[Doc Durian]

Tell her that you still have feelings for her and that living together probably will end in disharmony.

Wish her well, and find somewhere else to move into.

Sink lots of putts into the greens of assorted courses.

No use waiting around to see if she's got feelings for you.

If she does, at least you got your knob polished in the meantime.

(Hey, she's got someone sliding into her home plate.)

Game on.

[razorbacknation]

Right. I'll keep that in mind to.