My boyfriend and I have reached the point of bj's. We've been eachs other's first for everything, excluding kissing. Just within the past few weeks have we done the bj thing and recently I swallowed. it doesn't really bother me. But the problem is now he won't kiss me after I swallow. He makes me rinse my mouth out first because he doesn't want it in his mouth. But it won't get in his mouth because I've already swallowed it. And also, after he cums we usually stop all sexual acts. He's not horny really for the rest of the night? Why? I'm usually still really horny but he's not.