Revenge

[dayzedNconfused]

okay so i have a problem and its with my bestfriend. well my bestfriend is a very very flirtacious person sometimes i think she does it just for fun or maybe its just her nature but she knows what shes doing and she thinks its funny. everyguy she talks to or i talk to she flirts with them sexualy. she even does it with my boyfriends and to people she knows im really interested in. for some reason it just dosn't feel right not to introduce them to her its almost a thing now where i introduce them to her just to see what they'll do and they always do the same thing.she lives in a diff state than i do at this moment because of family problems so i can only talk to her on the phone at this time and point thats the reason i introduce them to the people and she does it over the phone. sometimes she will end up talking to my boyfriends and somehow gets them talking about there problems and secrets and holds it above my head in some situations. everytime something happens she always has another side to the story and knows something i dont know about someone close to me. i know people keep telling me not to be her friend but its hard to do that because i've confronted her about it and she comes off all innocent so i can't have any reason not to be her friend because from what she's telling me its the guys flirting with her. but then the guys tell me its her whos coming on to them. i've even went as far as being on the phone with the guys and her not knowing it and she brings sexual things up and stuff and as soon as shes gonna say it she says oh i know shes on the phone like she dosnt want me to hear(this has happend on plenty of occasions) so i know something is up i just dont know if shes doing it on purpose or if she is just an attention whore. i would really love to know should i get her back and get revenge ( i sure would love that ) or what should i do to fix this problem? is it me..? is it her? or is it the guys..please let me know i'm not gonna feel satisfied untill i get revenge i know i shouldnt hang with her it just dosnt feel right because i dont have a reason to not hang around her i need some guys advice on some flirting tips or some sarcastic things to say that will mess her head up!

[TDurden]

First of all, they're called paragraphs. This is something I didn't find out for years and years, but it turns out that if you hit the "Enter" key it'll start a new line and if you hit it again it'll create a blank line that you can follow with more words. This space will make it real easy for people to read what you're saying and make them want to help you.

Anyway, your friend sounds like a bitch. She's ****ing with other people's heads and ****ing with your head.

Personally I love revenge, but the problem with that is it can backfire unless you're 100% sure you've got the other person beat. If you can't set up a scenario that is completely foolproof, then don't try it.

The mature route would be to confront her about it and push past the innocence. Be blunt and ask her why she's flirting with your boyfriends and why she's being so petty and weird. If she avoids it or says she's not going to change, then ditch her.

[misombra]

i read that post 3 times before i realized i read it before. what is my problem?

[anachronistic]

i read that post 3 times before i realized i read it before. what is my problem?

your reaction time. if it takes you 3 times of reading something, before you actually realized you read it, then you have extremely slow reaction time.

anyways, if you were just making a silly comment about why a mod hasn't cleaned it up, it's because our mods are less active than before, and the forum is dying. it's time to recruit a new mod, unless eurasian, or illusional, or innova, or one of my other favorite mods starts visiting more often. i'll report the thread if it's that big of a deal. we got 3 convos going though. is there a way to merge them into 1 thread?

[Gigabitch]

Maybe we can just use some socialism on her dumb ass and employ cruel words to curb her irresponsible posting habits.

[anachronistic]

Maybe we can just use some socialism on her dumb ass and employ cruel words to curb her irresponsible posting habits.

yea, what the **** kind of stupid bitch posts a thread, demanding help, and then calls us "gay"(bastardizing the english language) which is silly and immature.

how old are you dazedandconfused? or are you dazedandconfused about that too? i would say you are 15.

you need to stop worrying about your friend because she is a snobby bitch, just like you.

oh, and one more thing, there is more to it than sitting on our asses here all day long. lots of us are friends (by friends i mean eFriends) and we (the regulars) have stayed through the years, because we love giving advice to people who appreciate it, unlike you.

what now?

[Henry123]

dayzedNconfused I suppose you could always be as flirtaious as well in front of her.

[Junket]

Obliviously she's not the problem.

YOU are.

This girl causes you trouble, with your male friends so what do you do?

You continue to introduce them to her?

Are you ****ing stupid?

She's not abusing you, you're abusing yourself, and you deserve it.

[JohnsonROd]

Gotta agree with Frasbee... just don't be friends with her. That's the beauty part of friendships, you can choose them.

You're both insecure girls it sounds like... she's obviously unsure of herself because she needs constant attention from males, and you're insecure because you feel threatened by her.

I'll tell you about a similar situation I was in....
I had this friend that would always hit on my girlfriend... one time at a party I was drunk on a bed, and heard him totally coming on to my girl in the kitchen... so what did I do? When he came into the bedroom... I punched him in the nuts... and I punched him hard.

I felt extremely guilty about it the next morning... and now (a few years later), I only talk to him once in a while.

However... I'm matured a little more since then and wouldn't have a problem introducing him to girls I'm involved with... because I don't feel at all threatened by him anymore.

Hope that helps

[batista]

don't introduce her to your friends. Ignore her and that's the solution.

Lol this forum is full of censored words being displayed lol such as ****ing bitch

[Gigabitch]

don't introduce her to your friends. Ignore her and that's the solution.

Lol this forum is full of censored words being displayed lol such as ****ing bitch

Clearly, they are not censored. They're just words. Censoring them would disrupt the natural flow of conversation.

[Junket]

Some used to be censored, but then people complained about it, and LA just did away with the censoring all together. Thank god.

[lovesjoyajm]

Dazedandconfused, you don't have to get 'revenge' on her to solve the alleged problem. Just tell her that you're offended by how she acts to your boyfriends, and if you so desire, end the friendship. This doesn't mean calling all your mutual acquaintances and spreading rumors about what a bitch she is, it just means you stop considering her your 'best friend', which she obviously is not, and take action accordingly - don't call her, don't hang out with her, don't introduce her to people you don't trust her with.