what is unattractive?

[Illusional]

yeah, so we got so many post about what is sexy... and blah blah blah. however, when the hell turns YOU, US, EVERYONE off???

i'll go first, so personally i don't like to date fat chicks. yes, i'm skinny and i try to keep myself in shape... and that shape would be a slender one, not a round one. however, i don't see myself with a chubby girl, unless she gets that way after i have started dating her.


so what do you hate and why? what turns you off... emotionally, sexually, physically, so forth.


raverboy

[vashti]

I hate stupidity and a lack of humility. And laziness. And pie-in-the-sky dreamers. And comb-overs.

[Illusional]

whoa... when did you get all this hate?

so would you rather date people who are, average and proud? or smart yet gutless?

or someone who has big dreams and all the power to accomplish it, yet they can't get one foot out of the door because they are just afraid...

OR someone who wears a rug on their head? hahahaha


raverboy

[vashti]

none of the above. obviously.

[tooxshort]

Look in the mirror!

[LailaK]

Bad smells are unattractive. Particularly when a guy takes off his pants and you can smell that he doesn't wash down there as well as he should.

That is vomit inducing. Groom it up gentlemen!!!

[nerdy_guy]

If she can only talk about boys, fashion, and showbiz... Nah...

[sookie6]

I hate bad language and arrogance...

Also, my own personal taste I don't like men who never go out and spend too much time watching TV or plaing video games...I like th outdoor and adventurous type...a bit like that man in Man Vs Wild..

[Gribble]

Oh my god, dreamers?? You hate dreamers!?

Dreamers are the only people worth a damn. Maybe they don't all succeed, but the ones that do make it worthwhile. This world would suck if it weren't for all those little boys and girls who spent their classes staring out the window and dreaming and who grew up to create something that pushed the envelope.

[dewilliams2]

I hate bad language and arrogance...

Also, my own personal taste I don't like men who never go out and spend too much time watching TV or plaing video games...I like th outdoor and adventurous type...a bit like that man in Man Vs Wild..

I like to think I don't limit my vocabulary by limiting words and I'm not arrogant I'm overly-confident.

I'd have to say stupidity and shallowness turns me off. I love a woman who is intelligent and is sexy without realizing it or trying....they are so much more fun and willing to make an ass of themselves with me doing karaoke or something like that.

[rain.man]

I like th outdoor and adventurous type...a bit like that man in Man Vs Wild..

I love the same in a woman. I'd take Ruth from Man, Woman, Wild any day

As far as unattractive goes, smoking is an instant attraction-killer. Or having a Blackberry permanently affixed to your hands.

[vashti]

Oh my god, dreamers?? You hate dreamers!?

Not dreamers. I said "pie-in-the-sky" dreamers. I should have elaborated, I guess. I meant the type of get-rich-quick dreamers who put more effort into avoiding work than it would take to get a job, the type that are always trying to latch on to some silly scheme to get rich, but never have any success. They are typically "too smart" or "too talented" to have a real job, and prefer to live off women who are too weak to demand more, and their investments into get rich schemes end up bankrupting the family.

For some reason, I have known a lot of men like this.

Dreamers with actual PLANS are great.

[qwertz]

Not dreamers. I said "pie-in-the-sky" dreamers. I should have elaborated, I guess. I meant the type of get-rich-quick dreamers who put more effort into avoiding work than it would take to get a job, the type that are always trying to latch on to some silly scheme to get rich, but never have any success. They are typically "too smart" or "too talented" to have a real job, and prefer to live off women who are too weak to demand more, and their investments into get rich schemes end up bankrupting the family.

For some reason, I have known a lot of men like this.

All that ^^ is my ex! I cant stand that in a man.

Also, arrogance is a huge turn off.

Physically I dont like obese men, or men with real bad acne that dont treat it!! ewww.

[misombra]

arrogance is one of my major turn offs as well. yet so many men think that it is something to be admired. tis a shame.

i don't like guys that have no ambition and aren't trying for something in their life. those guys that hang out with their friends and take life day by day.

don't like drinkers and pill poppers.

do not like stupidity and lack of sense of humor, which seem to go hand in hand.

[the_robot]

Stupid people.