I think she lost attraction

[jcali]

Towards the end I think my ex lost physical attraction, she would say remember what you used to look like when we got together? Also she said my butt was getting flat.

I have been tanning, got my teeth whitened, and am working out a lot now. Do you think she will be attracted to me again if I put back my 30 pounds again, and look good the next time she sees me?

[Lipp]

If the reason that the two of you broke up was because she wasnt attracted by your looks (which doesn't sound too great if that's the main cause for a breakup), then yes.

Otherwise, no. There's probably another issue that you'll have to work on.

[jcali]

Well, I used to work out at the beginning, and weighed about 170, now my weight is about 148, and I don't look toned. To be honest I am a really good looking guy overall.

We were together for 3 years, and I believe I stopped trying because I felt comfortable. In about a months time I feel I can be back to where I was.

So if I do all these things, attraction can come back? We did have fights but the sex died out as well towards the end.