Your on the first date and everything's

[gaddes]

Your on the first date and everything's going great until.he/she says they won't have sex anymore until they are married.would this be a problem for you?Could you really put off having sex for 3 or 4 years just for this person?

[Junket]

No.
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[Mish]

Your on the first date and everything's going great until.he/she says they won't have sex anymore until they are married.would this be a problem for you?Could you really put off having sex for 3 or 4 years just for this person?

There are some girls who do that (out of perhaps some misguided Religious obligation), but the problem that stems out of it is some people are physically incompatible and others are sexually incompatible (different sex drives etc.). They marry just to find out they are incompatible and then they divorce, I personally wouldn't want to go through that. So, NO.

[Junket]

Seriously, absolutely not.

It's not even that I would be lookin' to get some ass that night or the night after, all people are doing when they "save" something so intangible is either starve the relationship from progressing until either the relationship dies, or it someone gives in and marries for the sake of sex.

[carl1222]

There are some girls who do that (out of perhaps some misguided Religious obligation), but the problem that stems out of it is some people are physically incompatible and others are sexually incompatible (different sex drives etc.). They marry just to find out they are incompatible and then they divorce, I personally wouldn't want to go through that. So, NO.

I wouldn't for exactly the same reasons Mishanya said.

It's ironic that a rule that is meant to sanctify marriage can so often lead to its ultimate destruction.

Carl.