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    I have a crush against a co-worker that wouldn't go away

    I have a big crush on my co-worker and it wouldn't go away. How can I get rid of it?

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    Why get rid of it? Are you married? Have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Don't want to f-up a work relationship? Throw us a bone

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    I'm not married, but she works in the same team as I do. and she is married.

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    If she's married then...hmmm, hard choice here, YOU CAN'T PURSUE HER cause she's...wait for it....wait...MARRIED!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovable View Post
    If she's married then...hmmm, hard choice here, YOU CAN'T PURSUE HER cause she's...wait for it....wait...MARRIED!!!
    why not? And don't be rude, what did I do to you?

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    Do you want to get rid of the crush or the co-worker? :p

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    Quote Originally Posted by MaidenMinx View Post
    Do you want to get rid of the crush or the co-worker? :p
    Yes, I do. I don't want it any more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mammadon View Post
    I have a big crush on my co-worker and it wouldn't go away. How can I get rid of it?
    You can give it away to someone else.
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    Easiest way to get rid of it is to just find another crush to focus on. The alternatives would be just living with it and keeping it to yourself, or attempting to pursue her only to get shot down. Which would ruin a perfectly good work relationship. You have to just try to put it in the back of your mind and tell yourself "It would be a really bad idea." Whenever you think about her.

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    You are just bored......get an active social life to keep your mind from fantasizing.

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