I know this and that is okay. A little background: We are in love and have been in a relationship for 10 months. I am recently divorced and she is still married, separated for 1.5 years, yet not getting a divorce because of their financial debt and is waiting for the economy to get better. She has 2 children who live with her and I have 2 children.
She moved her family to my state to be closer to me. She has a job, which doesn't pay much at all. I help her out financially and pay for her daughters private school tuition. She is running me broke and I am not rich, but I can always make more money, so I don't care about the money. I give her great sex (she tells me this) and alot of love too.
My question is, "What expectations should I require for what I give her?" I know money cannot buy you into a relationship and her kids live with her as well, however, I expect to be more than a boyfriend, I expect a divorce and for me to move in with her. How long should I wait?
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07-10-09, 11:40 PM #1
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I am being used for money, sex and love.
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07-10-09, 11:43 PM #2
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How much money you got?
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That's the bottom line, when the money goes, you will be gone too. The only good thing about it I guess is that you control the destiny, so you can't kick yourself for letting it go on too long in the end.
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08-10-09, 12:38 AM #3
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No you are not. You are in love. People in love do not use people for money, sex and love. No if's and's or but's. Originally Posted by joejoe3
Once the well runs dry, she's going to find another well. You will be dried up and useless, and don't think she's sticking around for the mind blowing sex she tells you, you have.
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08-10-09, 02:04 AM #4
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She should be your sex slave, since it's all she's got to give.
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08-10-09, 03:11 AM #5
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She's got baggage too! Oh and debt. What a catch!
Joe is SOOO in love <3
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Hi room, am cosmos a counsel on realtionship matters
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Never let anybody tell you to have sex with him to show to him you love him. Never ever
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Okay. You get today's non sequitur award. Originally Posted by thecounsellor
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08-10-09, 03:39 AM #9
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^ go have sex with yourself to show yourself you love yourself.
this is a dude talking about his married lover.
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