Does anyone have any ideas on romantic things to do for my live in girlfriend? Things like holding hands, kissing, putting arm around here, don't count. She says that I am not romantic and things like leaving notes, and sending ecards are not new anymore. I already do the things listed before, as well as open doors for her and other relationship expected things. Any ideas would be helpful. I did think of stopping at the side of the road and picking some flowers that she likes.