background:

so they've only ever met him twice so today was the 3rd time

the bf is generally really quiet/shy around people he doesn't know, so this combined with nerves made him extra quiet.

so parents went to his house, met the whole family this time. fyi, i didn't go. this was decided before hand + i was at work

things that are bothering me from the feedback i got from him and my parents:

1) both parents have taken an instant liking into his brother ~ he, the brother, has seemed to have had a very good effect on both of them in just 1 visit.

2) the bf was quiet again. this doesn't bother me because he's different with me, but as he's been quiet around them, they have'nt seen the true him, so they don't quiet know what to think of him.

3) i don't think his family were as hospitable as mine were, when they came. i don't really know what to make of this. am i looking in to it too much?

what do you guys make of this? giga, vash - as mothers whats going on?