Problem?!

[blauw]

Hi,


Something bothers me in bed. I'll try to explain
I'm in a relationship for 2 years now ... We are very happy together! planning on building a house & getting kids some day... BUT
I can't get my girlfriend to have an orgasm when being inside her. I know it's impossible for some woman to have one. So i'm guessing it's also like that with her.
When I go down on her , it works like a charm.
Least I think ... cause when i ask if she hit "the point", she says: I don't know...
I mean .. how can u not know? :s

Also i have a bigger sex drive then her...
I could do it every day ( like every other guy prolly ).
But if i don't make a move ... i don't have sex a whole week...
It's like she doesn't need it, a healthy sex-life is important in a relationship right?

It really bothers me ...
Tried to talk to her about it. But she says it's not that big of a deal to her & she doesn't need sex every once a week...

Guess my question is ... how can I make her ( REALLY REALLY REALLY ) WANT to have sex. Any spots i don't know about?

All advice is welcome!

[miSSleepy]

She seems really disinterested. Perhaps you should take things slowly in bed, get her aroused, tease her etc before having sex. Make SURE she enjoys it.
I don't know anything about what you actually do or what you know about. Maybe you should leave the gspot be for now and aim for the clitoris... don't accept "i don't know". Communicate with her, tell her to tell you what she wants you to do.