Will we ever get engaged?

[pcmaster]

I think you are losing your mind over this guy that don't want you as much as you want him.

[Wakeup]

My bf said I have to figure out if I want our relationship to continue & if so, we both need to identify what we would change

You should change your underwear everyday.

[Roses919191]

I think you are losing your mind over this guy that don't want you as much as you want him.

He's a successful hot guy who could have anyone but still chooses me even after feeling betrayed by me constantly talking to my guy friend, and nagging him about marriage weekly. He would not stick around if he didn't truly love me & see good in me

[smackie9]

No he's a coward, and is waiting for you to do the breaking up.

[basilandthyme]

He would not stick around if he didn't truly love me & see good in me

Where on earth do you get these ideas from? You're either completely delusional or seriously lacking in life experience. People stick around in relationships where there's no future for all kinds of reasons. Mostly due to convenience, cowardice or laziness

[Roses919191]

Not a guy who's very independent and perfectly content being alone. A very good looking successful guy who I ikniw has a a lot of options. That kind of guy doesn't just stick around for someone he doesn't really think is worth it (and tell his buddies he wants to propose soon)

[basilandthyme]

Not a guy who's very independent and perfectly content being alone. A very good looking successful guy who I ikniw has a a lot of options. That kind of guy doesn't just stick around for someone he doesn't really think is worth it (and tell his buddies he wants to propose soon)

So if you're so sure about all of this, why did you start this thread? And why nag him about marrying you?

[Roses919191]

I have a long history of anxiety disorder, I'm on meds, I frequwntky just keep obsessing and replaying thoughts and doubts in my head. If not about 1 topic I find another

[Wakeup]

Not a guy who's very independent and perfectly content being alone. A very good looking successful guy who I ikniw has a a lot of options. That kind of guy doesn't just stick around for someone he doesn't really think is worth it (and tell his buddies he wants to propose soon)

No, that kind of guy keeps a door mat at home to do his laundry (you) while he has sex with other women of low self-worth. Then, he eventually marries who his mother says he should.

[pcmaster]

Thats the problem Rose. You see higher value in this guy, you think hes better than other guys, maybe even better than you. Thats why you take his crap. When you think that guy is special and better than others thats where you are a little crazy already. It will take you a long time to realize that its just a guy and nothing special. At least the way he threats you - hes not putting you on the same pedestal where you put him.