thanks fras
I can actually read it now...not that it warrants a response!
LOL No Kiddin'. Half of these bitches wouldn't try me in public.
Primo
I sent you my pics.
130 ain't impressive
I gave you my heart
I gave you my soul
Now I'm just another number
at the Center for Disease Control
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perhaps you should consider changing your dating filter.
assuming you are attractive, you're bound to be hit on by men who exhibit confidence in their own attractiveness or feel assured of their abilities to "pick up" women.
since romantic gestures are generally viewed by men as tactics to increase their chances with a woman, it's only logical to assume that these gestures are prevalent moreso on men who don't feel as confident in their image as a "worthy" dating candidate.
make a personal profile of men you've dated and create a periphery zone i.e. all the qualities you automatically go for. try expanding your periphery zone to people you wouldn't have considered before i.e. skinny/chubby guys, different ethnic/racial backgrounds, different income levels, different levels of attractiveness, etc.
you'll be pleasantly surprised that as you're expanding your peripheral zone, you're opening yourself upto men whom you've never viewed as viable partners before and actually enjoying it. it's hard to ignore the superficial qualities we use daily to judge others, but it's very possible to break them down completely.
my wife often teases me by saying how lucky I am she didn't marry for money or good looks. but don't think I don't count my lucky stars. I met someone who wanted to become old and wrinkly with me at a time when I felt like the biggest loser in school.
as for romantic gestures, I think I've went through all the parlour tricks. last week, I confronted the Mrs. with a poem I had worked on for a few months. I've never seen her laugh so hard.
that will be the last time I substitute expensive diamond earings with proses from the soul!
Actually, my dream guy, would be rich, but not attractive in terms of looks, if I guy is too popular among other girls, no matter how much I like him I will not consider having a serious relationship with him… I value responsibility just as much as I value money. I’m attracted to serious, responsible guys, they have to be thin (and preferably blond), my age, but those guys are almost always too shy, or just, it seems not interested in girls in general (“for now”)
So I often end up with popular ones just cuz they hit on me, And there’s no way that I know to get to know a guy whose not popular.. they are simply not open for it, and I don’t wanna end up looking like a stalker
welcome to our world. men don't approach women for the very same reason.
i'll be honest with you. the moment men & women finally have the courage to talk to one another (at random) will be the beginning of the end for personals ads, pick-up artists, self-help books and love forums ;-)
my wife approached me. I didn't find it weird. it was rather refreshing & attractive.
try it some time. when you keep in mind that there are places in the world where people are struggling to have food at the end of each day, you're problems will seem miniscule in comparison.
p.s. money is a poor motivator for attraction.