What sort of things is she doing? I cant be arsed to go back through and look.
Sorry karin12 this guy doesn't exist. Maybe get a cat.
Sorry about the trolls; I assure you, once I'm made mod on this forum, I'll take action.
Ya right ass wipe....
Yeah right, what?
Geez, smack: you getting crazy on me. Y u b hatin?
Anyone know where I can find a girl like this? Without the "no sex" clause, of course
You guys are amusing, thanks XD.
If you're a virgin, then I can understand why you want to wait. He is a good guy for waiting without pushing you into it. However... you don't know what you're missing! I think if you trust him, feel comfortable when you're around him, and know for a fact that he doesn't have STDs, you should just go for it and have sex. It's no big deal, really. It will hurt a bit the first time(s), but eventually you'll find it's one of the most fun and enjoyable activities ever :-). Just get it out of the way. There's no such thing as "wanting the first time to be special"... the first time is always awkward, and painful for a girl. Just make sure he's a trustworthy guy, one that wouldn't brag about "finally f*cking you" to his friends, or anything like that.
My first time wasn't painful at all....it's a different experience for everyone, and it depends on how gentle your lover is. If he takes his time with foreplay, and uses a good lube you should be fine......If you can't have sex with the lights on, then you know you are not ready.
Yeah you're right, it isn't painful for everyone. It depends on lots of things, including how aroused a girl is, how relaxed she is, etc. Some women don't even suffer from menstrual cramps... everyone is different.
The worst case scenario is that she'll feel a little pain - nothing like painful menstruation, to stay on the subject.
Sounds to me like he has been pressuring. Perhaps he's not the guy to give it up to..Probably has an addictive personality.He asked for it every time we make out.
Oops, I missed that part. You're right, LR. He has been pressuring.
OP, is your boyfriend a virgin too? If he is, it is somewhat excusable.
Young virgin guys just can't wait to have sex (LR, I swear it wasn't directed to you - my ex was a virgin when we started dating and he begged for it every time we saw each other... it was exhausting, but cute in a way), he may be afraid that if he doesn't ask persistently, it's never going to happen.
Another question: do you want to have sex with him sooner or later? If you do, what are you waiting for exactly?