Originally Posted by
NeoSeminole
How fair would it be if you agreed to work hard to support your family while your husband stays at home, and when you divorce he recieves half your money, the kids, and child support (I'm not including alimony) for doing an easier job? Don't use children as an excuse. Today, fathers and mothers share almost equal parenting responsibilities..
You seem to forget that most women have jobs (maybe they pay less but that's a moot point), spend all their time outside of work being a parent, AND have domestic responsibilities that most men do not take part in. Do you know very many men who cook dinners for their families, clean bathrooms, do laundry, or pick up after their wives and kids? I sure don't. Any man who says that being a full time employee, mother, AND (house)wife is an 'easier job' is severely misguided. I don't have kids yet, but I can tell you now that my bf would never be able to keep up with even my current workload. He'd end up fired from his job and our place would look like a garbage heap if I left the responsibility to him. Guaranteed. I can't even imagine throwing children into the equation.
Last edited by bluesummer; 22-09-05 at 11:07 AM.
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