Questions Ladies: Ask a Gay Male

[misombra]

Being intimidating has its pros and cons. The pros being immediately commanding respect, public favor, my chances of being robbed or attacked ramdomly by some crazy fool are slim. But the cons far outweigh the pros to me in that I seem unapproachable, and thus, people wont approach me.

I'm lonely alot, as far as romantic companionship is concerned, as a result of my unapproachabilty. So its hard for me to get a date, because either the guy was afraid to approach me, or he couldnt detect my gayness, or my ego was in the way. So I do like to have the ability to intimidate on hand because people dont **** with me or try to disrespect me. But I wish I could look more approachable so people would approach me. So in this aspect I dont like being intimidating.

it takes a strong person to be gentle. i read that in some book. it's true, i think.

[anachronistic]

While you are at it, maybe you can quit picking on the kid on that other thread.

Why don't you quit trying to be Jesus? I was pulling his leg. Nothing wrong with a comedic personality.

[vashti]

Why don't you quit trying to be Jesus? I was pulling his leg. Nothing wrong with a comedic personality.

You are right. Harrassing kids is real funny. What was I thinking?

[DharmicLove]

It's okay, I was referring specifically towards faggots.

Anyway, here's a question, do you truly believe a person is either gay or straight, or if you wanna get technical "bi"?

In the animal kingdom, homosexual and heterosexual behaviors are common amongst many organisms, none (or most) of which do not favor, or adhere to one or the other exclusively.

Would you agree the "gay/straight/bi" categorization are just another one of man's abstract ideas?

Exactly. Anything being categorized is what pertains to idealsim. So my theory is that its just human nature. Whether you're gay, bi, straight, transgendered or whatever. These things occur naturally just as shown through the mirror of the animal kingdom.

[DharmicLove]

Actually, you wouldn't intimidate me. What are you going to do? I usually pack heat when I'm not at school and have weapon access up the f*cking ass, more than you've probably ever seen in your life

That said I look completely harmless and disarming

I get annoyed when I hear people say stuff like "People don't mess with me". The reason is that you haven't pissed off the wrong people. What if you tried selling drugs in some area and this cut into some other guys profits? What if you turned someones name into the police? People WILL **** with you then

Okay...Im not gonna argue. I simply rest my case. I still have compassion for you.

[DharmicLove]

This is very true.

I have my doubts about you strolling down some of the inner city neighborhoods here in New Orleans. Walking some of those streets at all, begs trouble.

What if I told you Im from one of those hoods.?

[FoxyLaydee]

Is Kylie Minogue still regarded as the gay icon?

[DharmicLove]

"Nobody would like anal sex unless they're ____"

"Nobody wants to vote for Democrats unless they're ____"

There's a name for these types of statements.. but the name doesn't really matter.. all that matters are the elements.. "Nobody" a strong statement made to exclude absolutely.. followed by an exception "but".. It's done this way because the person making the whole statement doesn't have faith in the argument when he or she uses the word "nobody" to exclude absolutely.. he or she knows that this isn't an absolute truth.. but asserts it anyway.. and leaves a back-up option in the form of a false exception "but".. however.. the exception serves the user's need.. if others don't agree with his or her view.. they fit the exception.. where the exception is wrong & negative..

Now.. don't get pissy just because I wouldn't like it if you sucked my d*ck.. I didn't call you names just because you like your manhood treated like a delicate flower.. That's personal preference.. doesn't mean you suck at sucking.. it just means that if that's how all gay guys suck d*ck (which they don't).. I take back whatever I said about girls needing lessons.. I want my hard & throbbing manhood treated like a manly organ.. not a girly organ.. sh*t.. even women don't want it to be too gentile & delicate down there..

You can throw all the drama you can think of.. but who are you? are you some authority on what is weird or not? How ironic.. a conservative gay.. what's next? Kosher ham? Weird.. psst.. fcuk yeah.. I want the woman who's going down on me to make her naughty face while she slides her teeth along the head of my penis.. and tugs my shaft really really hard.. up and down as she traps my head between her top row of teeth and her powerful tongue.. and as she's taking it all into her mouth.. I want her to treat it like a d*ck in her mouth.. not like some pacifier a little baby sucks on.. and as i'm about to blow my load.. I want her to tug it hard with her hands.. lock her lips around my shaft while she's going up and down on it and massaging it with her tongue.. and pull and suck every last drop out.. until i'm completely spent..

I'm spent..

Best,

GrkScorp

OOOOOOHHH I guess he told me. No Comment.

[DharmicLove]

Is Kylie Minogue still regarded as the gay icon?

Honey, there are many gay idols, I'm quite urban, african american actually and Im very much into the R&B/ hip hop scene. So the gay icons in that category would be like Beyonce, Mariah, Janet, Brandy, Mary J. Blige, Keyshia Cole. But there are those older gays, blacks and whites, who like Kylie Minogue and Barbra Streisand and Elton John. So it isnt just ony gay icon.

[FoxyLaydee]

Honey, there are many gay idols, I'm quite urban, african american actually and Im very much into the R&B/ hip hop scene. So the gay icons in that category would be like Beyonce, Mariah, Janet, Brandy, Mary J. Blige, Keyshia Cole. But there are those older gays, blacks and whites, who like Kylie Minogue and Barbra Streisand and Elton John. So it isnt just ony gay icon.

Interesting! I have always only heard of Kylie Minogue as the gay icon. I know one of my gay buddies is obsessed with Madonna.

Keyshia Cole is awesome!

[DharmicLove]

O.K.

A word on painting & maintaining "face".. if you have to do it.. if you have to say it.. just so you can show it.. just so you can get others to believe or agree with the reality you would like them to agree with.. then it must be the case that this reality isn't that obvious to everyone else.. that this is in fact not everyone else's reality.. and that you must try hard to force this reality onto others.. paint a face onto yourself.. wear a mask.. and maintain face..

"I have a 12 in cock, put your 2 inch killer away little boy"

"Do you know who I am?"

"I will fcuk you up"

"Don't mess with me!"

"Don't argue with me, you won't win.. you're outclassed"

"I am very intimidating, i'm too much for you"

We get the point.. my favorite however is when girls text you the following message:

"I'm not talking to you"

(Yeah.. you're not talking to me.. but had to text message me.. just to let me know that you're not talking to me.. right.. sure..)

The point is.. don't do it.. it just comes off the wrong way.. to someone who actually knows better.. when they hear something like that.. "face prescriptions" they automatically register it as a sign that the person doesn't believe too strongly in what he is asserting.. so he feels the need to assert it.. like a beta fish extending its gills to try and intimidate an other beta fish.. it doesn't want to fight.. so it would rather try and intimidate than encounter actual conflict..

If you must intimidate.. or come out as the victor.. do so with actions.. not with words (unless victory depends on an argument; in which case.. argue properly).. You don't have to say such things for us to take you seriously you know.. we believe you.. we know not all gay guys are feminine.. You don't need to make such assertions for us to believe you.. I think some people were just pulling your leg..

Best,

GrkScorp

Why are you so mad? Im not mad..at all.

And the simple the fact is, I dont give a damn if you believe me or not. **** it, you dont believe me, I dont know you , and you dont know me.

[Tedel]

Nothing personal, but...

How come this thread has become so popular? Is it just because he's gay?

I have a question for you, DharmicLove:

What do you think about gay marriage? Do you think it is really necessary to establish that legal frame? I think it isn't, but I am curious about your point of view.

It's funny, heterosexuals die to get divorced more easily. Gays die to get married without moving to Belgium.

[Asparagoose]

Im not mad..at all.

And the simple the fact is, I dont give a damn if you believe me or not. **** it

Doesn't sound mad at all to me. "I don't give a damn if you beleive me or not", but I just thought I should let you know how much I don't really care what you think by making a post about it. David J. Lieberman is the man!

I think this chain of posts is so popular because he's our only openly gay member. It reminds me of that movie, Chuck and Larry. He said he's a discrete homosexual, but I guess it's still important to express it somehow. DharmicLove, did you like that movie at all?

[SubbySarah]

My fiance whom I love very much...was bisexual in his highschool years. Then when attending college he was thrown into this stricty gay community. He has slept with a decent number of men and overall maybe 5 girls tops. When he finally moved away to start an internship he became aware of the feelings he had for me...he is not femanine at all and is not the stereotypical homosexual male. We talked through everything and he wanted to express to me that he feels attracted to both make and female, which I am 110% fcool with! Even though I couldn't be more happy and he expresses the same happiness, I am sometimes unsure about his feelings in the future...like what if he feels like he only likes guys again? Do you think it is possibly for someone to be bi then gay then bi and now straight?

[DharmicLove]

O.K.

A word on painting & maintaining "face".. if you have to do it.. if you have to say it.. just so you can show it.. just so you can get others to believe or agree with the reality you would like them to agree with.. then it must be the case that this reality isn't that obvious to everyone else.. that this is in fact not everyone else's reality.. and that you must try hard to force this reality onto others.. paint a face onto yourself.. wear a mask.. and maintain face..

"I have a 12 in cock, put your 2 inch killer away little boy"

"Do you know who I am?"

"I will fcuk you up"

"Don't mess with me!"

"Don't argue with me, you won't win.. you're outclassed"

"I am very intimidating, i'm too much for you"

We get the point.. my favorite however is when girls text you the following message:

"I'm not talking to you"

(Yeah.. you're not talking to me.. but had to text message me.. just to let me know that you're not talking to me.. right.. sure..)

The point is.. don't do it.. it just comes off the wrong way.. to someone who actually knows better.. when they hear something like that.. "face prescriptions" they automatically register it as a sign that the person doesn't believe too strongly in what he is asserting.. so he feels the need to assert it.. like a beta fish extending its gills to try and intimidate an other beta fish.. it doesn't want to fight.. so it would rather try and intimidate than encounter actual conflict..

If you must intimidate.. or come out as the victor.. do so with actions.. not with words (unless victory depends on an argument; in which case.. argue properly).. You don't have to say such things for us to take you seriously you know.. we believe you.. we know not all gay guys are feminine.. You don't need to make such assertions for us to believe you.. I think some people were just pulling your leg..

Best,

GrkScorp

Nothing personal, but...

How come this thread has become so popular? Is it just because he's gay?

I have a question for you, DharmicLove:

What do you think about gay marriage? Do you think it is really necessary to establish that legal frame? I think it isn't, but I am curious about your point of view.

It's funny, heterosexuals die to get divorced more easily. Gays die to get married without moving to Belgium.

I dont believe in marriage. When you really think about it, beyond the surface level, you will find that it is just another man-made idea passed down through history. To me, marriage is just the attainment of a marriage liscence, an objectively meaningless ceremony (it may have subjective meaning), and a couple of words which to me mean nothing. Its not that I hate marriage, Im just not an idealist and marriage is/was nothing more than some other man's - or a group of men's - ideas, waaaaayyy back when.