Never had a girlfriend, Am I ugly? [pic]

[Bumble_bee]

I hate to be the one to say this, but you may want to invest in a spell check/editor for that "book" of yours. I may have just had a grammar-related aneurysm.

didn't you know, baz has proof readers and editors to do that for him....

[Aeradalia]

Why can't i seem to do anything about it?

Because you act as though every attempt should be perfection. You're going hunting without much practice. Just because you point a gun at a deer doesn't mean you'll hit it -- you're going to need practice, training, and tons of opportunities to mess up.

Instead of putting so much pressure on EVERY encounter you have with women, just think to yourself that this is a 'practice' round. Work on trying new techniques or perfecting others. So what if you don't take a girl home with you? Did you learn what does and doesn't work? If so... then the time was well spent -- you're learning.

[Bumble_bee]

Dalia ...put it sooo right, no more pressure baz, treat this like research for your book, what works, what doesn't...no more pressure...keep positive!