making some one un-shy

[vashti]

I find a man's chest to be more aesthetically pleasing.

[Junket]

Last time I posted big penises I got a warning from Cybog.

[Tired]

is it rude to ask a person if their shy after you experience they kinda are? Just for the sake of conversating about it

[LostNotFound]

if there shy i don't think there gona be discussing how shy they are lol

[Tired]

i've been asked "why are you so quiet" occasionally at work by people I don't talk to.

Usually it's just older black women whom I don't feel their is any sexual spark between. They work in a different section with me but in meetings they've asked me that now and then. I don't talk in meetings *shrugs*

[Chimeros0]

I am shy ( to get to know ),but I am a clown whenever possible.
Even around people I don't know & have never met in my entire life.
I will make myself known by acting weird/funny or telling funny jokes...
Just being eccentric.
It helps ease the tension in a group especially when meeting new people.
It also eases me out of any long range serious talk & I can give my opinion freely...As it may or may not be taken seriously.
It also clears me having to talk about my past & present, as they are very dark...Very very dark indeed...

[Gigabitch]

It also clears me having to talk about my past & present, as they are very dark...Very very dark indeed...

Well, that's intriguing. Do tell.

[Converse]

I am shy ( to get to know ),but I am a clown whenever possible.
Even around people I don't know & have never met in my entire life.
I will make myself known by acting weird/funny or telling funny jokes...
Just being eccentric.
It helps ease the tension in a group especially when meeting new people.
It also eases me out of any long range serious talk & I can give my opinion freely...As it may or may not be taken seriously.
It also clears me having to talk about my past & present, as they are very dark...Very very dark indeed...

No offence but acting wacKy and stuff is annoying because people can tell you're trying to get attention.

[Chimeros0]

Not the way I get it done...
Besides,we are I talking about introductions.I don't like being serious,so I improvise.
The attention thing sounds like a logical thing,but somehow it gets dissolved when in a group.
Don't quite know how to explain it otherwise...
Please don't confuse me with some attention seeking idiot.
It's my way of dealing with my insecurities & shyness...
It works for me...Can't say much about the rest of the world.
It doesn't get annoying unless you go overboard or don't know when to stop.

[Converse]

True, didn't mean to sound harsh. Do what-ever makes you feel comfortable.

[LostNotFound]

my SO is shy around other people. when it's us we have the greatest time. he goes shy around and quiet around people he doesnt' know. its cute that hes bashful. he's fine with our friendship circle people. i love you baby!! still working on the family.

[Miss hotty]

Not the way I get it done...
Besides,we are I talking about introductions.I don't like being serious,so I improvise.
The attention thing sounds like a logical thing,but somehow it gets dissolved when in a group.
Don't quite know how to explain it otherwise...
Please don't confuse me with some attention seeking idiot.
It's my way of dealing with my insecurities & shyness...
It works for me...Can't say much about the rest of the world.
It doesn't get annoying unless you go overboard or don't know when to stop.

I do that but i flirt instead only with guys it's the only way i know how to talk to them without the shyness being there

[Ath]

"If it ain't broke"

[Miss hotty]

Yes that right