That you are right back at where you left off and you're still only seeing a guy that has no intentions (or so it seems) of progressing your relationship any further then you being the interim girl until his parents set him up with their intended bride for him. Like I said, until he introduces you to his family as his girlfriend, nothing has been done to advance your relationship dynamic past what it was in post #1.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion