Originally Posted by
Villo
Nope. Homicidal sorts come in all different sizes, shapes and forms. You should allow a professional to decide who is and who isn't truly a "homicidal maniac" based on a formal psychological assessment, rather than trying to play at being an online armchair psychoanalyst.
Then you have as much or more of an anger management problem that the OP, which is pretty disturbing.
Well, actually that's really bad advice. If you have so much unmanaged rage that you've already physically assaulted someone with a box cutter and you're pleased by the prospect of seeing your smiling reflection in someone's blood who you gleefully tortured (even if just in your imagination), like the OP, you NEED change more than you need air to breath ... because you are officially a danger to all other people around you.
You are so right. I am not a professional just giving my view. You are not a professional and no one else here is either. Point made.
Oh, I know I have anger issues. I have had help, and I have made it through. ONCE again I will say, what I WANT and what I actually DO are two different things. Being able to differentiate is very important which people also need to understand.
When it comes to her dating, if all was well and they just left, then I think that isn't her fault. Being yourself is important. The fact that this has caused her to think and feel this way, is where her needing help comes in. Like I said earlier, I don't think these relationships are the cause of her problems, I think it is something deeper. It was for me when I sought help for anger and depression.
I am a danger to people around me. More so the people I choose to avoid and don't associate with that only bring negativity in my life.
My whole point with what I posted, is being negative doesn't influence a person to get help. Being on someone and pushing them down more, DOES not make them get help. So if you feel the OP needs help, be encouraging for it and give as much positive influence you can, otherwise you will make this person take off and who knows what could happen.
Least I can say I told her methods to help, and where to seek good help from for free and within her means. SOME people on here just wanted to bash, and good for them. Only hope someone doesn't come into their lives that was bashed on when seeking help.
I am done here. If a narrow window is all someone sees, then have fun sitting on a seal and only looking out that narrow view because you felt high and mighty on your rotten wooden ledge. Some of us are out here fighting to make life the best that it can be despite our downfalls and poor circumstances, even upbringing. If your scared fine, but I don't fear people like this, no one is just this way for no reason, but then again that is why I am in school for what I am. I don't just think one thing and run with it. I think from experience and apply it.
The best advice is from those who have suffered through something, and managed to survive.
“I was never really insane except upon occasions when my heart was touched.” ― Edgar Allan Poe
Wish for a pile of shit to turn into gold hard enough and guess what? It's still a heaping pile of shit.